Tuesday, January 3, 2017

2016 In Review

First off, I did not blog much (or at all) this year, but want to review 2016 just for the hell of it.

1. What did you do in 2016 that you’d never done before?
I went to a High School reunion. My 20th. I'd never been to one before. I can't honestly say I'll go to one again. But it was an an experience. I have nostalgia about high school. I liked high school- it was easy and fun. But I don't think it was "the best years of my life."

2. Did you keep your new year’s resolutions, and will you make more for next year?
I did not make New Years resolutions, so I didn't have anything to keep. This year, I'm expecting more of the same. 
3. Did anyone close to you give birth?
My sister, my sister-in-law, a few friends. 

4. Did anyone close to you die?
Not this year

5. What countries did you visit?

Just the US. We did the middle of the country ball parks this year. Minnesota Twins, Milwaukee Brewers, Kansas City Royals, Chicago White Sox (we'd been to Wrigley in past years, who would have guessed that this would be THE YEAR for the Cubs?). A few trips to California. Massachusetts and New Hampshire.

6. What would you like to have in 2017 that you lacked in 2016?
A firm path to the future. I know. Vague. But I think that we're getting better with long term planning, and I'd like to continue with that.

7. What moments from 2016 will remain etched upon your memory, and why?
We had a fall down, drag out fight in October, due to bad communication and technology failures. It snowballed. However, at the end, we realized we'd let some things go and they were bothering both of us. The fight brought our issues to a surface and we've been working on it since.

8. What was your biggest achievement of the year?
Saying NO. Giving up things that hold no value to me. Not volunteering for everything that comes along.

9. What was your biggest failure?
Ignoring some really great things my kids did, because I was wrapped up in my own issues.

10. Did you suffer illness or injury?
Not really. I got a tubal ligation on 12/27 and I'm still recovering from that surgery.

11. What was the best thing you bought?
A new mattress set. We spent way too much money on a Simmons Beauty Rest Black, and it is worth every penny. It took a couple of weeks for me to get used to sleeping on it- I'm a front sleeper, and it's not ideal- but my back and shoulders feel so much better. My husband's back is way better too.

12. Whose behavior merited celebration?
My husband- he's been much better at trying to accommodate me, rather than the other way around. My youngest is amazing. She's somewhat of a math genius, and has been taking gifted math classes for this school year.

13. Whose behavior made you appalled and depressed?
I have a few friends who turned out to be Trump supporters, and it was bad.

14. Where did most of your money go?
Mortgage, paying off debt

15. What did you get really, really, really excited about?
My husband kept his job, and pushed through a really tough year for him. And it looks like it paid off, because he's starting a new position in a few weeks that will be more rewarding to him.

16. What song will always remind you of 2016?

Can't Stop the Feeling by Justin Timberlake, mostly because it was ALWAYS on

17. Compared to this time last year, are you:

a) happier or sadder?
b) thinner or fatter?
c) richer or poorer?
a) Happier
b) Fatter- gained back 20 of the 60 lbs I lost two years ago
c) Richer- we've done a good job on finances this year

18. What do you wish you’d done more of?
Working out, taking time for me

19. What do you wish you’d done less of?
Stressed about the future. I realized I can't change the world as a whole, it's better to become introspective and try to change myself.

20. How did you spend Christmas?
The same as usual. Stayed at home. I have the youngest kids in the family in this geographical area, so I host. My kids didn't get out of bed until 10 AM. We leisurely opened presents, ate candy and then went to the movies. It was pretty awesome.

21. Did you fall in love in 2016?

Just more in love.

22. What was your favorite TV program?

This is Us is amazing. I also love Superstore and The Good Place.

23. Do you hate anyone now that you didn’t hate this time last year?
Hate is a strong word.
24. What was the best book you read?

Nothing stands out as AMAZING this year. I read a lot of books that were good, some that were better than average, but nothing new that will become a yearly re-read.

25. What was your greatest musical discovery?
Hamilton soundtrack.

26. What did you want and get?
Family, friends and good times.

27. What did you want and not get?

The first woman president.

28. What was your favorite film of this year?

We saw a lot of movies, nothing fantastic.

29. What did you do on your birthday, and how old were you?

I turned 38 in August. My husband took me out for a  drink. We didn't give each other birthday presents or anniversary presents this year, because we bought a new bed that cost way too much money.

30. What one thing would have made your year immeasurably more satisfying?

Better phones. My husband and I had a few fights, including the culmination in October that may have been avoided if we had phones that did not suck. The Apple 5-C is maybe the worst phone of all time (that doesn't explode).

31. How would you describe your personal fashion concept in 2016?

Lularoe. So worth the money.

32. What kept you sane?
Family. The kids getting older and more independent.

33. Which celebrity/public figure did you fancy the most?
Sam Rockwell.

34. What political issue stirred you the most?
The election was horrific. Everything leading up to the election. Realizing that old white men still hold all the power in the United States. Realizing that my access to birth control might be limited led me to fast track a tubal ligation this year, because I do not want to have any more children. And if my birth control had failed, my access to a safe, fast abortion is going to be limited.

35. Who did you miss?
My family and friends who live on the east coast, while I live in Arizona.

36. Who was the best new person you met?
The kids started at a new school this year, and one of the PTA moms is great.

37. Tell us a valuable life lesson you learned in 2016.
People believe anything that makes them right. Even if the source is flawed or conjecture or gossips, if it backs up their world view, it becomes TRUTH.

38. Quote a song lyric that sums up your year.
I'm awful at this.